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🌸ﻫﻞ ﻳﺠﻮﺯ ﻟﻠﻨﺴﺎﺀ ﺗﻄﺒﻴﻖ ﺍﻵﻳﺔ ﺍﻟﻜﺮﻳﻤﺔ(ﻭَﺍﻫْﺠُﺮُﻭﻫُﻦَّ ﻓِﻲ ﺍﻟْﻤَﻀَﺎﺟِﻊِ)🌸
#ﺍﻟﺴﺆﺍﻝ :
ﺟﺰﺍﻛﻢ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ ﺧﻴﺮﺍ ﺍﻟﺴﺎﺋﻠﺔ ﺗﻘﻮﻝ ﻫﻞ ﻳﺠﻮﺯ ﻟﻨﺎ ﻧﺤﻦ ﺍﻟﻨﺴﺎﺀ ﺗﻄﺒﻴﻖ ﺍﻵﻳﺔ ﺍﻟﻜﺮﻳﻤﺔ ( ﻭَﺍﻫْﺠُﺮُﻭﻫُﻦَّ ﻓِﻲ ﺍﻟْﻤَﻀَﺎﺟِﻊِ ) ﺃﻱ ﺍﻟﻬﺠﺮ ﻷﺯﻭﺍﺟﻨﺎ ﺑﺎﻟﻔﺮﺍﺵ ﻋﻨﺪﻣﺎ ﻳﺸﺬﻭﻥ ﺃﻭ ﻳﻤﻴﻠﻮﻥ ﻋﻦ ﺍﻟﻄﺮﻳﻖ ﺍﻟﺼﺤﻴﺢ ﺍﻟﺴﻠﻴﻢ ﺃﻡ ﻣﺎﺫﺍ ﻧﻔﻌﻞ ﺟﺰﺍﻛﻢ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ ﺧﻴﺮﺍ؟
#ﺍﻟﺸﻴﺦ :
ﻧﻌﻢ ﺍﻵﻳﺔ ﻻ ﺗﺘﻨﺎﻭﻝ ﺍﻟﻨﺴﺎﺀ ﻷﻥ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ ﻗﺎﻝ ( ﻭَﺍﻟﻼَّﺗِﻲ ﺗَﺨَﺎﻓُﻮﻥَ ﻧُﺸُﻮﺯَﻫُﻦَّ ﻓَﻌِﻈُﻮﻫُﻦَّ ﻭَﺍﻫْﺠُﺮُﻭﻫُﻦَّ ﻓِﻲ ﺍﻟْﻤَﻀَﺎﺟِﻊِ ﻭَﺍﺿْﺮِﺑُﻮﻫُﻦَّ ﻓَﺈِﻥْ ﺃَﻃَﻌْﻨَﻜُﻢْ ﻓَﻼ ﺗَﺒْﻐُﻮﺍ ﻋَﻠَﻴْﻬِﻦَّ ﺳَﺒِﻴﻼً ﺇِﻥَّ ﺍﻟﻠَّﻪَ ﻛَﺎﻥَ ﻋَﻠِﻴّﺎً ﻛَﺒِﻴﺮﺍً ) ﺃﻣﺎ . . .
ﻧﺸﻮﺯ ﺍﻟﺮﺟﻞ ﻓﻘﺪ ﻗﺎﻝ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ - ﺗﻌﺎﻟﻰ - : ( ﻭَﺇِﻥِ ﺍﻣْﺮَﺃَﺓٌ ﺧَﺎﻓَﺖْ ﻣِﻦْ ﺑَﻌْﻠِﻬَﺎ ﻧُﺸُﻮﺯﺍً ﺃَﻭْ ﺇِﻋْﺮَﺍﺿﺎً ﻓَﻼ ﺟُﻨَﺎﺡَ ﻋَﻠَﻴﻬِﻤَﺎ ﺃَﻥْ ﻳُﺼْﻠِﺤَﺎ ﺑَﻴْﻨَﻬُﻤَﺎ ﺻُﻠْﺤﺎً )
ﻓﺄﺭﺷﺪ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ ﺗﻌﺎﻟﻰ ﺇﻟﻰ ﺍﻟﺼﻠﺢ ﻓﻴﻤﺎ ﺇﺫﺍ ﺧﺎﻓﺖ ﺍﻟﻤﺮﺃﺓ ﻣﻦ ﺯﻭﺟﻬﺎ ﺍﻟﻨﺸﻮﺯ ﻭﻟﻢ ﻳﺄﻣﺮﻫﺎ ﺃﻥ ﺗﻌﻈﻪ ﺃﻭ ﺗﻬﺠﺮﻩ ﺃﻭ ﺗﻀﺮﺑﻪ ﻷﻧﻪ ﻻ ﻳﻤﻜﻦ ﺃﻥ ﻳﻜﻮﻥ ﻟﻠﻤﺮﺃﺓ ﺳﻠﻄﺔ ﻋﻠﻰ ﺍﻟﺮﺟﻞ
ﺑﻞ ﺇﻥ ﺍﻟﻨﺒﻲ ﺻﻠﻰ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ ﻋﻠﻴﻪ ﻭﺳﻠﻢ ﻟﻤﺎ ﻗﻴﻞ ﻟﻪ ﺇﻥ ﺍﻟﻔﺮﺱ ﺟﻌﻠﻮﺍ ﻣﻠﻜﻬﻢ ﺑﻨﺖ ﻛﺴﺮﻯ ﻗﺎﻝ - ﺻﻠﻰ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ ﻋﻠﻴﻪ ﻭﺳﻠﻢ - : ( ﻟﻦ ﻳﻔﻠﺢ ﻗﻮﻡ ﻭﻟﻮﺍ ﺃﻣﺮﻫﻢ ﺍﻣﺮﺃﺓ )
ﻭﻟﻜﻦ ﺇﺫﺍ ﺃﺧﺬﻧﺎ ﺑﻌﻤﻮﻡ ﻗﻮﻟﻪ - ﺗﻌﺎﻟﻰ - : ( ﻓَﻤَﻦِ ﺍﻋْﺘَﺪَﻯ ﻋَﻠَﻴْﻜُﻢْ ﻓَﺎﻋْﺘَﺪُﻭﺍ ﻋَﻠَﻴْﻪِ ﺑِﻤِﺜْﻞِ ﻣَﺎ ﺍﻋْﺘَﺪَﻯ ﻋَﻠَﻴْﻜُﻢْ )
ﻗﻠﻨﺎ ﻳﺠﻮﺯ ﻟﻠﻤﺮﺃﺓ ﺇﺫﺍ ﻣﻨﻊ ﺍﻟﺰﻭﺝ ﺣﻘﻬﺎ ﺃﻥ ﺗﻤﻨﻊ ﺣﻘﻪ ﺣﺘﻰ ﻳﺴﺘﻘﻴﻢ ﻋﻠﻰ ﺃﻣﺮ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ ﻟﻌﻤﻮﻡ ﺍﻵﻳﺔ ( ﻓﻤﻦ ﺍﻋﺘﺪﻯ ﻋﻠﻴﻜﻢ ﻓﺎﻋﺘﺪﻭﺍ ﻋﻠﻴﻪ ﺑﻤﺜﻞ ﻣﺎ ﺍﻋﺘﺪﻯ ﻋﻠﻴﻜﻢ )
ﻓﺈﺫﺍ ﻛﺎﻥ ﻣﻘﺼﺮﺍً ﻓﻲ ﺣﻘﻬﺎ ﻭﺭﺃﺕ ﺃﻧﻪ ﻟﻦ ﻳﺴﺘﻘﻴﻢ ﻭﻟﻦ ﻳﺆﺩﻱ ﻣﺎ ﺃﻭﺟﺐ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ ﻋﻠﻴﻪ ﻣﻦ ﻣﻌﺎﺷﺮﺓ ﺍﻟﻤﺮﺃﺓ ﺑﺎﻟﻤﻌﺮﻭﻑ ﺃﻥ ﺗﻤﻨﻊ ﻣﻦ ﺣﻘﻪ ﻣﺜﻞ ﻣﺎ ﻣﻨﻊ ﻣﻦ ﺣﻘﻬﺎ ﻓﻼ ﺑﺄﺱ ﺑﺬﻟﻚ .
#ﺍﻟﺴﺆﺍﻝ :
ﺟﺰﺍﻛﻢ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ ﺧﻴﺮﺍ ﺍﻟﺴﺎﺋﻠﺔ ﺗﻘﻮﻝ ﻫﻞ ﻳﺠﻮﺯ ﻟﻨﺎ ﻧﺤﻦ ﺍﻟﻨﺴﺎﺀ ﺗﻄﺒﻴﻖ ﺍﻵﻳﺔ ﺍﻟﻜﺮﻳﻤﺔ ( ﻭَﺍﻫْﺠُﺮُﻭﻫُﻦَّ ﻓِﻲ ﺍﻟْﻤَﻀَﺎﺟِﻊِ ) ﺃﻱ ﺍﻟﻬﺠﺮ ﻷﺯﻭﺍﺟﻨﺎ ﺑﺎﻟﻔﺮﺍﺵ ﻋﻨﺪﻣﺎ ﻳﺸﺬﻭﻥ ﺃﻭ ﻳﻤﻴﻠﻮﻥ ﻋﻦ ﺍﻟﻄﺮﻳﻖ ﺍﻟﺼﺤﻴﺢ ﺍﻟﺴﻠﻴﻢ ﺃﻡ ﻣﺎﺫﺍ ﻧﻔﻌﻞ ﺟﺰﺍﻛﻢ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ ﺧﻴﺮﺍ؟
#ﺍﻟﺸﻴﺦ :
ﻧﻌﻢ ﺍﻵﻳﺔ ﻻ ﺗﺘﻨﺎﻭﻝ ﺍﻟﻨﺴﺎﺀ ﻷﻥ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ ﻗﺎﻝ ( ﻭَﺍﻟﻼَّﺗِﻲ ﺗَﺨَﺎﻓُﻮﻥَ ﻧُﺸُﻮﺯَﻫُﻦَّ ﻓَﻌِﻈُﻮﻫُﻦَّ ﻭَﺍﻫْﺠُﺮُﻭﻫُﻦَّ ﻓِﻲ ﺍﻟْﻤَﻀَﺎﺟِﻊِ ﻭَﺍﺿْﺮِﺑُﻮﻫُﻦَّ ﻓَﺈِﻥْ ﺃَﻃَﻌْﻨَﻜُﻢْ ﻓَﻼ ﺗَﺒْﻐُﻮﺍ ﻋَﻠَﻴْﻬِﻦَّ ﺳَﺒِﻴﻼً ﺇِﻥَّ ﺍﻟﻠَّﻪَ ﻛَﺎﻥَ ﻋَﻠِﻴّﺎً ﻛَﺒِﻴﺮﺍً ) ﺃﻣﺎ . . .
ﻧﺸﻮﺯ ﺍﻟﺮﺟﻞ ﻓﻘﺪ ﻗﺎﻝ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ - ﺗﻌﺎﻟﻰ - : ( ﻭَﺇِﻥِ ﺍﻣْﺮَﺃَﺓٌ ﺧَﺎﻓَﺖْ ﻣِﻦْ ﺑَﻌْﻠِﻬَﺎ ﻧُﺸُﻮﺯﺍً ﺃَﻭْ ﺇِﻋْﺮَﺍﺿﺎً ﻓَﻼ ﺟُﻨَﺎﺡَ ﻋَﻠَﻴﻬِﻤَﺎ ﺃَﻥْ ﻳُﺼْﻠِﺤَﺎ ﺑَﻴْﻨَﻬُﻤَﺎ ﺻُﻠْﺤﺎً )
ﻓﺄﺭﺷﺪ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ ﺗﻌﺎﻟﻰ ﺇﻟﻰ ﺍﻟﺼﻠﺢ ﻓﻴﻤﺎ ﺇﺫﺍ ﺧﺎﻓﺖ ﺍﻟﻤﺮﺃﺓ ﻣﻦ ﺯﻭﺟﻬﺎ ﺍﻟﻨﺸﻮﺯ ﻭﻟﻢ ﻳﺄﻣﺮﻫﺎ ﺃﻥ ﺗﻌﻈﻪ ﺃﻭ ﺗﻬﺠﺮﻩ ﺃﻭ ﺗﻀﺮﺑﻪ ﻷﻧﻪ ﻻ ﻳﻤﻜﻦ ﺃﻥ ﻳﻜﻮﻥ ﻟﻠﻤﺮﺃﺓ ﺳﻠﻄﺔ ﻋﻠﻰ ﺍﻟﺮﺟﻞ
ﺑﻞ ﺇﻥ ﺍﻟﻨﺒﻲ ﺻﻠﻰ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ ﻋﻠﻴﻪ ﻭﺳﻠﻢ ﻟﻤﺎ ﻗﻴﻞ ﻟﻪ ﺇﻥ ﺍﻟﻔﺮﺱ ﺟﻌﻠﻮﺍ ﻣﻠﻜﻬﻢ ﺑﻨﺖ ﻛﺴﺮﻯ ﻗﺎﻝ - ﺻﻠﻰ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ ﻋﻠﻴﻪ ﻭﺳﻠﻢ - : ( ﻟﻦ ﻳﻔﻠﺢ ﻗﻮﻡ ﻭﻟﻮﺍ ﺃﻣﺮﻫﻢ ﺍﻣﺮﺃﺓ )
ﻭﻟﻜﻦ ﺇﺫﺍ ﺃﺧﺬﻧﺎ ﺑﻌﻤﻮﻡ ﻗﻮﻟﻪ - ﺗﻌﺎﻟﻰ - : ( ﻓَﻤَﻦِ ﺍﻋْﺘَﺪَﻯ ﻋَﻠَﻴْﻜُﻢْ ﻓَﺎﻋْﺘَﺪُﻭﺍ ﻋَﻠَﻴْﻪِ ﺑِﻤِﺜْﻞِ ﻣَﺎ ﺍﻋْﺘَﺪَﻯ ﻋَﻠَﻴْﻜُﻢْ )
ﻗﻠﻨﺎ ﻳﺠﻮﺯ ﻟﻠﻤﺮﺃﺓ ﺇﺫﺍ ﻣﻨﻊ ﺍﻟﺰﻭﺝ ﺣﻘﻬﺎ ﺃﻥ ﺗﻤﻨﻊ ﺣﻘﻪ ﺣﺘﻰ ﻳﺴﺘﻘﻴﻢ ﻋﻠﻰ ﺃﻣﺮ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ ﻟﻌﻤﻮﻡ ﺍﻵﻳﺔ ( ﻓﻤﻦ ﺍﻋﺘﺪﻯ ﻋﻠﻴﻜﻢ ﻓﺎﻋﺘﺪﻭﺍ ﻋﻠﻴﻪ ﺑﻤﺜﻞ ﻣﺎ ﺍﻋﺘﺪﻯ ﻋﻠﻴﻜﻢ )
ﻓﺈﺫﺍ ﻛﺎﻥ ﻣﻘﺼﺮﺍً ﻓﻲ ﺣﻘﻬﺎ ﻭﺭﺃﺕ ﺃﻧﻪ ﻟﻦ ﻳﺴﺘﻘﻴﻢ ﻭﻟﻦ ﻳﺆﺩﻱ ﻣﺎ ﺃﻭﺟﺐ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ ﻋﻠﻴﻪ ﻣﻦ ﻣﻌﺎﺷﺮﺓ ﺍﻟﻤﺮﺃﺓ ﺑﺎﻟﻤﻌﺮﻭﻑ ﺃﻥ ﺗﻤﻨﻊ ﻣﻦ ﺣﻘﻪ ﻣﺜﻞ ﻣﺎ ﻣﻨﻊ ﻣﻦ ﺣﻘﻬﺎ ﻓﻼ ﺑﺄﺱ ﺑﺬﻟﻚ .
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